I Read This Week’s Domestic Violence Headlines. Here’s What I Can’t Stop Thinking About.
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, so maybe I should not have been surprised to see domestic violence everywhere in the news this week. But I was. Not because the stories were especially shocking. That is actually what bothered me most. They felt familiar. One headline was about Denise Brown, the sister of Nicole Brown Simpson, speaking again about domestic violence more than three decades after losing her sister. Another reported that at least 31 people in Minnesota were known victims of intimate relationship homicide in 2025. A new University of Florida study looked at something we still don't talk about enough: the possible brain injuries that can accompany intimate partner violence. Different stories. Different people. Different states. But I kept thinking the same thing: How much suffering happens before the rest of us finally see it? Domestic violence is rarely one terrible night that suddenly appears out of nowhere. From the outside, people often look for the obvi...